Month: August 2006

  • Baby Girl
    Sugarland (Twice the Speed of Life)


    They say in this town, stars stay up all night,
    Well, I don’t know, can’t see ‘em for the glow of the neon lights.
    An' it's a long way from here to the place where the home fires burn.
    Well it's two thousand miles and one left turn.

    "Dear Mom and Dad,
    "Please send money: I’m so broke that it ain’t funny.
    "Well, I don't need much; just enough to get me through.
    "Please don’t worry 'cause I'm all right,
    "I’m playin’ here at the bar tonight.
    "Well, this time, I’m gonna make our dreams come true.
    "Well, I love you more than anything in the world,
    "Love,
    "Your baby girl."

    Black jack, blue sky: big town full of little white lies.
    Well, everybody’s your friend: you can never be sure.
    They'll promise fancy cars an' diamond rings, an' all sorts of shiny things,
    But, girl, you’ll remember what your knees are for.

    "Dear Mom and Dad,
    "Please send money: I’m so broke that it ain’t funny.
    "Well, I don't need much; just enough to get me through.
    "Please don’t worry 'cause I'm all right,
    "See, I’m playin’ here at the bar tonight.
    "Well, this time, I’m gonna make our dreams come true.
    "Well, I love you more than anything in the world,
    "Love,
    "Your baby girl."

    I know that I’m on my way.
    Well, I can tell every time I play.
    An' I know it’s worth all the dues I pay,
    When I can write to you and say:

    "Dear Mom and Dad,
    "I’ll send money. I’m so rich that it ain’t funny.
    "Well it oughtta be more than enough to get you through.
    "Please don’t worry 'cause I’m all right,
    "See, I’m stayin’ here at the Ritz tonight
    "Whaddya know, we made our dreams come true.
    "An' there are fancy cars an' diamond rings,
    "But you know that they don't mean a thing.
    "Well, they all add up to nothin' compared to you.
    "Well, remember me in ribbons an' curls.
    "I still love you more than anything in the world:
    "Love,
    "Your baby girl."

    Ah yeah.

    Your baby girl.
    ("Dear Mom and Dad,
    ("Please send money: I’m so broke that it ain’t funny.)
    ("Don't need much; just enough to get me through.)
    Your baby girl.
    ("Please don’t worry 'cause I'm all right,
    ("Playin’ here at the bar tonight.)
    (Ooh, ooh, ooh.)
    Dreams come true.

  • Something more
    Sugarland (Twice the speed of life)


    Monday, hard to wake up
    Fill my coffee cup, I'm out the door
    Yeah, the freeway's standing still today
    It's gonna make me late, and thats for sure
    I'm running out of gas and out of time
    Never gonna make it there by nine


    Chorus:
    There's gotta be something more
    Gotta be more than this
    I need a little less hard time
    I need a little more bliss
    I'm gonna take my chances
    Taking a chance I might
    Find what I'm looking for
    There's gotta be something more


    Five years and there's no doubt
    That I'm burnt out, I've had enough
    So now boss man, here's my two weeks
    I'll make it short and sweet, so listen up
    I could work my life away, but why?
    I got things to do before die


    Repeat Chorus


    Some believe in destiny, and some believe in fate
    I believe that happiness is something we create
    You best belive that I'm not gonna wait
    'Cause there's gotta be something more


    I get home 7:30 the house is dirt, but it can wait
    Yeah, 'cause right now I need some downtime
    To drink some red wine and celebrate
    Armageddon could be knocking at my door
    but I ain't gonna answer thats for sure.
    There's gotta be something more!






    I saw someting really amazing last night. It was CMT Crossroads and it featured Sugarland and... Bon Jovi?

  • The rules for being human

    You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.


    You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.


    There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works."


    A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.


    Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.


    "There" is no better than "here." When your "there" has become a "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."


    Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.


    What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.


    Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.


    This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.


  • One little victory


    One Little Victory
    Rush (Vapor Trails)


    A certain measure of innocence
    Willing to appear naive
    A certain degree of imagination
    A measure of make-believe


    A certain degree of surrender
    To the forces of light and heat
    A shot of satisfaction
    In a willingness to risk defeat


    Celebrate the moment
    As it turns into one more
    Another chance at victory
    Another chance to score


    The measure of the moment
    In a difference of degree
    Just one little victory
    A spirit breaking free
    One little victory
    The greatest act can be
    One little victory


    A certain measure of righteousness
    A certain amount of force
    A certain degree of determination
    Daring on a different course
    A certain amount of resistance
    To the forces of the light and love
    A certain measure of tolerance
    A willingness to rise above


    I'm always reminded to take "baby steps" specially when I'm stressed like I am now. I used to be better at handling stress than this week. I think we all pulled together

  • How I feel today...


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    Can't remember the name of the poet who said "When I thought I had all the answers they changed my questions."






  • Movies


    It takes heart of Stone to relive 9/11



    August 9, 2006

    BY RICHARD ROEPER Sun-Times Columnist








    "These broads are millionaires, lionized on TV and in articles about them, reveling in their status as celebrities. ... I've never seen people enjoying their husbands' deaths so much."

    Hatemonger Ann Coulter's assessment of some of the widows of 9/11 victims.


    It would be my great pleasure to arrange for a screening of Oliver Stone's "World Trade Center" for Ann Coulter and some of the families whose loved ones were killed or seriously injured on 9/11. It could take place in New York, New Jersey, any place, any time, all expenses on me. All I ask is, after the screening is over and the lights go up, that Coulter should stand and face these families and explain to them why she believes they experienced anything but the most profound emotional pain on that day and on all the days that have followed.



    Of course, Coulter will never go for something like that. That would take character and humanity, and she's an unconscionable pig.

    However, a number of conservatives whose hearts aren't rotted black have seen advance screenings of "World Trade Center," and from conservative watchdog Brent Bozell to longtime right-wing columnist Cal Thomas, they are singing its praises. Oliver Stone has created one of the most patriotic, pro-American films in recent years -- a movie that avoids Bush bashing and doesn't offer so much of a whisper of a conspiracy theory. It's not about politics -- it's about family, friendship and heroes who love their country.

    John Wayne would have loved this film.

    In perhaps the most conventional, straightforward movie of his career, Stone re-creates the events of the morning of Sept. 11, 2001, as experienced by two New York Port Authority police officers who were summoned to the scene after the first tower was hit. Nicolas Cage plays Sgt. John McLoughlin, a 21-year veteran who is said to know the layout of the World Trade Center buildings as well as anyone on the force; Michael Pena is Will Jimeno, a rookie who steps forward when McLoughlin asks for a handful of volunteers to join him on a rescue mission in the north tower. (It is a smart, if obvious, bit of casting to have the Oscar-winning action-hero star as the authority-father-figure, and a talented unknown as the brave but frightened rookie.)

    As thousands of pieces of paper flutter to the ground and ash-covered survivors emerge from the towers coughing and bleeding, the Port Authority officers scramble to collect enough Scott Air-Paks (30-pound, self-contained breathing devices) to enable them to fulfill their mission. McLoughlin discourages suicidal acts of bravery in favor of a methodical sense of purpose -- and in fact, the officers are still in the shopping concourse between the two towers, gathering equipment and verbally mapping out a plan, when the south tower collapses.

    McLoughlin's legs are crushed, and he is trapped in a crevice barely larger than a shallow grave. A few yards away, Jimeno is pinned under a slab of concrete. Two of their colleagues are dead, and a third is killed by a falling concrete wall as he tries to save Jimeno. Now it is just the two men, the veteran McLoughlin and the rookie Jimeno, nearly engulfed in the rubble, at least 20 feet below daylight. Their injuries are life-threatening, their pain is almost unbearable, they hear no sign of rescue teams, and they have no idea what is happening in the world above them.

    For most of the rest of the film, Cage is seen only in flashbacks to his homelife, or in dialogue-driven scenes in the rubble, during which he cannot move. Here we have an actor who thrives on mannerisms, twitches and over-the-top vocal gimmicks, literally pinned down. The result is one of his most powerful performances.

    An entire movie about two men waiting to be rescued would be either too static or too painful to watch, or both -- so Stone periodically takes us away from the meticulously created, astonishingly accurate Ground Zero set (built outside Los Angeles) and into the homes of McLoughlin's and Jimeno's wives, played by Maria Bello and Maggie Gyllenhaal, respectively, in performances worthy of best supporting actress consideration.

    Thanks to the work by the actresses and a beautifully crafted script by Andrea Berloff, Donna McLoughlin and Allison Jimeno are perhaps even more fully realized characters than their husbands. Seven months pregnant and with a young daughter, Allison is a tough spitfire who can't even imagine how she could tell her little girl that daddy isn't coming home.

    Donna's marriage is older, more comfortable, less passionate. As she waits for word on her husband and struggles to keep an emotional grip on her three children (who are questioning why she isn't doing more to bring their dad home immediately), she remembers small moments -- her husband fixing the roof, or teaching their son how to use a saw, or giving her a familiar, loving smile. Meanwhile, trapped in the rubble, John is doing the same. Thoughts of Donna keep him alive.

    Stone does a superb job of capturing what it's like for an extended family to wait for word of a loved one's fate. You get those moments when everybody concentrates ferociously on some mundane task, like getting coffee or making sandwiches, as if it's the most important thing in the world. At one point Gyllenhaal winds up wandering the aisles of a CVS, and when she realizes nobody in her party remembered to bring a cell phone, her panic and her resolve to get home now are palpable.

    In addition to the cops and their families, heroes abound in "World Trade Center," including a former Marine who sees the tragedy on TV and simply puts on his uniform and shows up on the site, and an ex-paramedic with a drug problem who risks his life to help save McLoughlin and Jimeno. Stone's direction is so cynicism-free that you wonder if he was visited by the ghost of Frank Capra while shooting this film.

    As with "United 93" earlier this year, there's much discussion about whether audiences are "ready" to see a mainstream movie about the events of 9/11. In New York, they're still talking about what to build on the site of Ground Zero, while Hollywood has already built a replica of Ground Zero for a film. You might not want to re-live these events, even though this is an uplifting story about survival and about American resilience in the face of a terrible horror.

    That's your choice, but you'll be missing one of the best films of the year. Thanks to the work of Bello and Gyllenhaal, "World Trade Center" in a way is also perhaps the most romantic film of the year, for it celebrates the strength of two women who didn't know if their husbands were coming home, and two men who stayed awake and alive by talking and thinking about the women waiting for them.

    Of the 20 people who were rescued from the rubble of Ground Zero, McLoughlin and Jimeno were the 18th and 19th. Their rescue provided a glimmer of hope and joy in some of the country's darkest hours. Stone's tribute to their struggle is a respectful salute to his country.




  • This are some of the most important lessons I've learned over the years.



    1. Treat people around you as you would like to have them treat you. I know it is an old adage, however it certainly works and makes your life easier and less complicated. Your life becomes more complex and disheveled when you constantly have people-issues to resolve that you could have averted by treating people in a more civilized manner.

    2. Develop routines for doing repetitious tasks or chores. Once you develop a routine you can then analyze the components of the task and develop faster, more efficient methods for achieving your desired result. Routines themselves do not necessitate being in a rut, you need to add variety so that life is always invigorating and stimulating.

    3. Keep a smile on your face as often as possible. Everyone around you responds in a more open and friendly manner if you start by making yourself more approachable. Simplify your approach to others so that you avoid unnecessary conflict.

    4. It is just as easy being neat as it is to being sloppy. In the beginning it would appear as though taking your time and being orderly would take more time and effort than being untidy. What you need to consider is that all of the time and effort in being neat is up front, such as putting your clothes away when you get home from work. If you are disorderly it is a two stage process. In stage one you have the time and effort involved in creating chaos and disorder, but you then also have the second stage of needing to clean up the mess made in stage one.

    5. Always look for people who have developed efficient processes for doing tasks in their life and make them your mentor. Everyone can learn something they did not know or realize from others who have already gained that experience. Do not reinvent the wheel unless it is necessary. Most successful people learn from other successful people's methods for getting ahead in life. Only true entrepreneurs chart a new path for others to follow.

    6. Determine goals for as many phases of your life as possible and commit them to paper or diskette. This gives you a path to pursue in attaining these goals and makes your decision process easier when you look at life as a never ending road map, but with destinations along the way.

    7. Don't waste time worrying over things you have no control over. It is counterproductive and does nothing to solve any problems or issues that you may have. Instead, focus on tasks that you can influence to make your life more fulfilling or that can stop a problem situation before it happens.

    8. Develop a game plan (schedule of major tasks) for each day. You should do this for both your professional and personal life. Most people like to take time and plan what they do at the office, however they do not list out the important things they should do in their personal lives.

    9. Develop a sense of balance between all phases of your life. Realize that your job and profession are important, but they are but a means of achieving other things in your life. Discover what is truly important in your life and devote more attention to this endeavor.

    10. Assess how happy you are in your occupation and why you are in your current profession. Not only will you be more successful if you are working at something you love, but you will make more money and have a more contented life style. Take stock of what you really enjoy in life and learn how you can incorporate these items into what you do to earn income.

    11. Always look for new avenues of improving yourself. Only through learning something new every day of your life can you make your experience on earth more meaningful and fulfilling. You should always share your new life discoveries with others so they will learn from your hard earned wisdom.

    12. Live as if this is all there is.

    13. Live with intention.

    14. Walk to the edge.

    15. Listen hard.

    16. Practice wellness.

    17. Play with abandon.

    18. Laugh.

    19. Choose with no regret.

    20. Continue to learn.

    21. Appreciate your friends.

    22. Do what you love.

    23. Use the rest of your time to nap  

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